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  • July 3, 2012
  • 11:45 PM
  • 428 views

Olympics Fun: National Personality Types: Fact or Figment?

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With the summer Olympics fast approaching, and our nation's birthday on Americans' minds, July seemed an apt month to dig a little into the concept of national personalities. For instance, we may possess conceptions of what typical French or German or British people are like relative to typical Americans. But are these ideas just oversimplified stereotypes, or are they rooted in actual country-level differences in personality characteristics?


Well, opinions vary.
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  • July 2, 2012
  • 10:57 AM
  • 281 views

The Happiness Chronicles III: Does Status Increase Happiness?

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"Beggars do not envy millionaires, but of course, they do envy other beggars who are more successful."
--Bertram Bertrand Russell (1930)

This is the final part of a three-part series on the science of happiness. In Part I, I discussed some pitfalls to pursuing happiness. In Part II, I suggested that money doesn't buy happiness, unless it is spent on others. In Part III, I discuss new research suggesting that having high status might improve happiness.

People (some more than o........ Read more »

Anderson C, Kraus MW, Galinsky AD, & Keltner D. (2012) The Local-Ladder Effect: Social Status and Subjective Well-Being. Psychological science. PMID: 22653798  

  • June 28, 2012
  • 12:25 AM
  • 324 views

When "He's Just Not That Into You" Backfires

by Psych Your Mind in Psych Your Mind

The popular self-help book He's Just Not That Into You: The No Excuses Truth To Understanding Guys is intended to empower women to stop waiting around for disinterested guys. The basic premise is that if a guy is interested, he will make it clear (e.g., ask you out, call you, propose to you, etc), and if he doesn't make it clear, then he's just not interested. There are certainly times when women and men alike need to be snapped out of wishful thinking and move on, but for some people and in........ Read more »

  • June 25, 2012
  • 05:05 PM
  • 389 views

Is He Worth it? Six Questions to Ask When Sacrificing in Relationships

by Psych Your Mind in Psych Your Mind

We must all face situations in our close relationships that require us to make a sacrifice. Perhaps, your spouse receives a big promotion, and it requires that you quit your job and move across the country. Or your boyfriend wants you to miss an important work even to attend his family reunion. Maybe you and your wife get jobs in different cities and must decide who has to make the long commute. For me, it was deciding whether to apply to graduate programs in areas that weren't near where my hus........ Read more »

Van Lange, P., Rusbult, C., Drigotas, S., Arriaga, X., Witcher, B., & Cox, C. (1997) Willingness to sacrifice in close relationships. Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, 72(6), 1373-1395. DOI: 10.1037/0022-3514.72.6.1373  

  • June 20, 2012
  • 01:02 PM
  • 315 views

Don't be a sheep...or a donkey or an elephant

by Psych Your Mind in Psych Your Mind

As election season approaches, many of us are deciding how to vote on policies that will influence our country and communities. How do we
make these important choices? What sources do we turn to when deciding how to vote? We certainly can and do seek out objective information, listen to educated opinions, and consult our own values. However, it might surprise you to learn that what other people think makes the largest impact on our own policy attitudes.



People are surprisingly susceptib........ Read more »

  • June 11, 2012
  • 04:54 PM
  • 455 views

The Pros and Cons of Sacrificing for the Ones We Love

by Psych Your Mind in Psych Your Mind

Your spouse comes home from work and excitedly tells you that
he just was offered a promotion – in another state. Do you quit your job and
move away from your family to an unknown city so that he can pursue his career
ambitions? Should you?



Close relationships require sacrifice. In fact, many people
include sacrificing in the very definition of what it means to truly love
another person. Sometimes that sacrifice can be life changing, such as deciding
to move to a different state i........ Read more »

Van Lange, P., Rusbult, C., Drigotas, S., Arriaga, X., Witcher, B., & Cox, C. (1997) Willingness to sacrifice in close relationships. Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, 72(6), 1373-1395. DOI: 10.1037/0022-3514.72.6.1373  

  • June 8, 2012
  • 03:03 AM
  • 292 views

Friday Fun: The Self-Esteem Playlist

by Psych Your Mind in Psych Your Mind

We make playlists for everything from exercise to studying to lulling ourselves to sleep, so why not make one for self-esteem? Here are some musical gems to give you a little more of whatever type of self-love you need.  


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  • June 5, 2012
  • 07:13 PM
  • 349 views

The Importance of Being Agreeable

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Consider, for a moment, two very different people:




Draco



Neville 

Neville is a friendly, warm person who tends to cooperate
with and trust others. He generally expects the best of people, and tends to be
generous and helpful towards others. He tries to be modest about himself.





Draco, on the other hand, is an aloof, rude person who tends
to be competitive and suspicious of others. He’s cynical about people – he doesn’t
expect them to return favors, so he’s not that likel........ Read more »

de Haan, A., Deković, M., & Prinzie, P. (2012) Longitudinal impact of parental and adolescent personality on parenting. Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, 102(1), 189-199. DOI: 10.1037/a0025254  

Sutin, A., Ferrucci, L., Zonderman, A., & Terracciano, A. (2011) Personality and obesity across the adult life span. Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, 101(3), 579-592. DOI: 10.1037/a0024286  

  • June 4, 2012
  • 02:13 PM
  • 385 views

This is NOT advice about the academic job search

by Psych Your Mind in Psych Your Mind

Last week I read Tal Yarkoni's excellent blog post on the things he learned during a failed academic job search last year (available here). Reading that piece brought me back to my own memories of the two job searches I've attempted (one successful). I remember the anxiety a lot, the feeling that there may not actually be a job out there for you (this is a common concern). Then there is also the feeling that you may not, in fact, be as awesome as you thought you were. It's classic se........ Read more »

  • June 1, 2012
  • 02:18 AM
  • 330 views

Friday Fun: A Postdoc's Running Diary

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Not to be confused with this oatmeal (source)

Last Friday, Amie gave us an all-access pass to her weekly graduate school routine (see it here). It was very interesting to read about how Amie breaks up her daily activities and manages her time. In fact, I was so captivated by Amie's post that I thought I'd add one of my own. Today, I give you a running diary of my work day--A Postdoc's Running Diary. I took some notes about a single day of work this week and for this blog post I wi........ Read more »

Lopez-Garcia E, van Dam RM, Li TY, Rodriguez-Artalejo F, & Hu FB. (2008) The relationship of coffee consumption with mortality. Annals of internal medicine, 148(12), 904-14. PMID: 18559841  

  • May 28, 2012
  • 05:10 PM
  • 256 views

When Good is Bad and Bad is Good: Beyond "Positive" Psychology

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What is the prescription for optimal living? The burgeoning
field of positive psychology appears
to have many of the answers: We should be kind and caring to others, forgiving
of transgressions, gracious and compassionate in our daily lives, and upbeat
and optimistic about the future. Following this simple plan should keep us
happy and healthy.  



But as with most things, it turns out that the answer might not be that simple. What’s
good may not always be good, and what’s bad may no........ Read more »

  • May 25, 2012
  • 01:15 PM
  • 458 views

Friday Fun: A Week in the Life of a Grad Student

by Psych Your Mind in Psych Your Mind

As a graduate student, I don't punch a clock or fill out a time card. Although I have a faculty advisor, I don't have a boss - no one is keeping count of my hours. Most of my work time is spent doing a variety of tasks related to research or teaching, and these often change from week to week. I love the freedom and diversity of the academic life, but the lack of structure means that at the end of the week I'm often unsure of how exactly I spent my time. I like to get a good nights........ Read more »

  • May 22, 2012
  • 11:07 PM
  • 335 views

No Pain, No Gain: The Psychology of Self-Punishment

by Psych Your Mind in Psych Your Mind

One of my favorite professors once told the following story: She was in the check-out line at the grocery store, and two young children, a boy and a girl, were seated in the cart behind her. When she unloaded some containers of yogurt onto the belt, the girl gazed at them longingly. Slowly, she began to reach her little arm towards the yogurts. Before she could touch them, her father slapped
her arm away and said sternly, "No!" The girl cowered back in shame. A moment later she reached out aga........ Read more »

  • May 20, 2012
  • 07:15 PM
  • 304 views

More Authors or Less Authors?

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In my brief time in research I have written journal articles authored by as few as two people and as many as six people. Many of those authors have been faculty members (senior researchers who provided me with valuable mentoring), colleagues (graduate students with similar experience and training), and trainees (early researchers learning the research process from me and others). This experience has got me wondering: What is the best combination of authors for writing a research paper?........ Read more »

  • May 16, 2012
  • 02:42 PM
  • 370 views

Marriage equality: What is shifting our opinions?

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Our president has brought us many first – events that have
nudged the collective social psychological typography of our nation. President
Obama’s race, grassroots campaign, and prolific use of social media have shaped subtle changes in how we interact with the political
system and each other.



Last week brought another first. Speaking in support of
same-sex marriage, Obama acknowledged and gave his voice to a divisive social
issue. Simultaneously, for the first time in our cou........ Read more »

  • May 14, 2012
  • 12:24 PM
  • 290 views

It's lonely at the top: Power makes you mistrusting

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It's lonely at the top

Power is desirable – it helps us achieve goals, frees us from many social constraints, and allows us to be ourselves. But having power isn’t all peaches and cream, it’s also lonely at the top. Perhaps Leonardo DiCaprio summed it up best when he said “I had better success meeting girls before Titanic... there wasn’t a perception of her talking to me for only one reason.” And it turns out this isn’t just Leo’s problem. According to recent research by E........ Read more »

  • May 11, 2012
  • 11:31 AM
  • 394 views

Airing your dirty laundry on Facebook - Endearing? Annoying? It may depend on your self-esteem

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Though this Facebook fad (I know I know, it’s here to stay) has never truly caught on with me, I am certainly aware of its many benefits. Facebook is an amazing medium for sharing information – news, music, ridiculous youtube videos. You can use Facebook as a means for self-expression – to advertise aspects of your personality, your taste, your interests. With Facebook you can stay current with your nearest and dearest, even if they live across the country/world (or stalk just ........ Read more »

  • May 10, 2012
  • 04:46 AM
  • 310 views

Five Classic Psychological Catch-22s

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Yossarian, the protagonist of Joseph Heller's classic novel, Catch-22, wants to be excused from air combat. To be excused, he needs only to prove that he is mentally unstable, but there's a catch: the very act of asking to be excused would show that he is sane. In other words, there's no way out. The term "catch-22" has since been used to describe any situation where circular logic guarantees an undesired outcome, no matter what a person does. Although catch-22s are typically found in legal o........ Read more »

Shelton, J., Richeson, J., Salvatore, J., & Trawalter, S. (2005) Ironic Effects of Racial Bias During Interracial Interactions. Psychological Science, 16(5), 397-402. DOI: 10.1111/j.0956-7976.2005.01547.x  

  • May 7, 2012
  • 04:01 PM
  • 449 views

A Game of Thrones: Lessons About Status

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In the Fall of 2012 I will be teaching a new course titled "Status, Power, and Influence" at the University of Illinois. I'm very excited about the topic and probably have too many ideas floating around in my head about what the course should cover. It is like being a kid in a candy store: In terms of course textbooks, there are literally dozens of great books about power and hierarchy!

Interestingly, my first thought about a textbook was the popular George R. R. Martin ........ Read more »

  • May 4, 2012
  • 04:52 AM
  • 577 views

Friday Fun: You Are What You Say

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Outside of high school English classes, most people don't give much thought to pronouns, prepositions, articles, auxiliary verbs, and other "function words" (e.g., I, to, of, am, the). They seem to be no more than fillers for the more important content words–the who, what, where, and why of language. But it turns out that these invisible words have psychological significance. In his new book, The Secret Life of Pronouns, psychologist James Pennebaker describes findings from his research on th........ Read more »

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